In the philippines there is currently a show called
Islamic cultural consultant clarifies mistake in show.
Of all the things they could correct. The clarification is that the Husband does NOT need to get his wife's permission to marry the next wife, up to four.
English translation in first reply
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Legal Wives cultural consultant, nilinaw ang pagpapakasal ng mga lalaking Muslim nang dalawa o higit pang beses
Jojo Gabinete
Mapapanood sa Legal Wives ng GMA-7 ngayong gabi, August 16, ang kasalang mangyayari sa pagitan ng mga karakter nina Dennis Trillo at Andrea Torres.
Isang Maranao royalty na puwedeng mag-asawa ng higit sa tatlo ang role ni Dennis sa Legal Wives. Sina Alice Dixson, Andrea, at Bianca Umali ang mga babaeng pakakasalan niya.
Ipinaliwanag ng cultural consultant ng Legal Wives na si Sohaimen Agal, isang Muslim, ang tungkol sa isyung hindi na kailangan ng Muslim men na hingin ang permiso ng kanilang unang asawa kung magpapakasal sila sa pangalawa o pangatlong beses na pagkakataon.
Paglilinaw niya, "Sa Islam, hindi po talaga kailangan ng consent ng first wife.
"Yung lalake, puwede siyang mag-asawa ng pangalawa, kahit hindi alam ng first wife.
"Pero advisable sa lalakeng sabihin niya sa first wife para walang gulong mangyayari.
"Saka, nandoon pa rin ang respect kapag ipinaalam niya sa first wife.
"Pero walang karapatan ang first wife na pigilan ang lalake kapag gusto ng lalake na mag-asawa ng pangalawa.
"Hindi rin importante na humingi siya ng consent dahil allowed sa Islam na magpakasal ng maraming beses."
Idinagdag ni Sohaimen na walang nakasaad sa Islam na kailangang may financial capacity ang isang lalake para makapag-asawa ito ng higit sa isa.
Aniya, "Hindi ‘yon kasali sa kundisyon. Kahit sinong lalake, mayaman man o mahirap, puwede siyang mag-practice ng polygamy.
"Puwede siyang mag-asawa ng pangalawa, pangatlo, hanggang pang-apat. Pero mas mainam nang yung maykaya ang mag-dowry dahil hindi ito birong pasukin.
"Kailangan ng financial, kailangan ma-sustain mo yung apat na asawa mo. Kaya kapag mayaman ang lalake, less problem ang mangyari."
Para patunayan ang punto niya, ginamit ni Sohaimen na halimbawa ang kanyang sariling ama na may tatlong asawa.
"Ang tatay ko, tatlo ang asawa. Usually, ang ugat ng gulo dahil sa financial problem.
"Kapag pobre ang lalake at marami ang asawa, kaya yung gulo, palaging nandiyan.
"Nag-aaway-away ang magpapamilya dahil walang makain, pero hindi requirement na maging mayaman ang lalake.
"Kahit pobre ka man o mayaman, puwede ka pa rin mag-asawa nang marami."
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Legal Wives cultural consultant, clarified the marriage of Muslim men two or more times
The wedding between the characters of Dennis Trillo and Andrea Torres will be aired on GMA-7's Legal Wives tonight, August 16.
Dennis' role in Legal Wives is a Maranao royalty that can marry more than three people. Alice Dixson, Andrea, and Bianca Umali are the women he will marry.
Legal Wives cultural consultant Sohaimen Agal, a Muslim, explained about the issue that Muslim men no longer need to seek the permission of their first wife if they marry a second or third time.
He clarified, "In Islam, the consent of the first wife is not really required.
"The man, he can marry a second, even if the first wife doesn't know.
“But it is advisable for the man to tell his first wife so that no 'tires' (arguments) will happen.
“Besides, there’s still respect when he informs the first wife.
“But the first wife has no right to restrain the man when the man wants to marry the second.
"It is also not important that he ask for consent because it is allowed in Islam to marry multiple times."
Sohaimen added that there is nothing in Islam that a man must have financial capacity to be able to marry more than one.
He said, "That is not part of the condition. Any man, rich or poor, can practice polygamy.
"He can marry a second, a third, to a fourth. But it's better for those who can afford to dowry because it's not a joke to enter.
"You need financial, you need to be able to sustain your four wives. So when the man is rich, less problems will occur."
To prove his point, Sohaimen used as an example his own father who had three wives.
"My dad, has three wives. Usually, the root of the mess is because of the financial problem.
"When the man is poor and there are many wives, that's why the trouble is always there.
"The family quarrels because there is nothing to eat, but it is not a requirement for the man to be rich.
"Whether you are poor or rich, you can still marry many."
Legal Wives cultural consultant, clarified the marriage of Muslim men two or more times
The wedding between the characters of Dennis Trillo and Andrea Torres will be aired on GMA-7's Legal Wives tonight, August 16.
Dennis' role in Legal Wives is a Maranao royalty that can marry more than three people. Alice Dixson, Andrea, and Bianca Umali are the women he will marry.
Legal Wives cultural consultant Sohaimen Agal, a Muslim, explained about the issue that Muslim men no longer need to seek the permission of their first wife if they marry a second or third time.
He clarified, "In Islam, the consent of the first wife is not really required.
"The man, he can marry a second, even if the first wife doesn't know.
“But it is advisable for the man to tell his first wife so that no 'tires' (arguments) will happen.
“Besides, there’s still respect when he informs the first wife.
“But the first wife has no right to restrain the man when the man wants to marry the second.
"It is also not important that he ask for consent because it is allowed in Islam to marry multiple times."
Sohaimen added that there is nothing in Islam that a man must have financial capacity to be able to marry more than one.
He said, "That is not part of the condition. Any man, rich or poor, can practice polygamy.
"He can marry a second, a third, to a fourth. But it's better for those who can afford to dowry because it's not a joke to enter.
"You need financial, you need to be able to sustain your four wives. So when the man is rich, less problems will occur."
To prove his point, Sohaimen used as an example his own father who had three wives.
"My dad, has three wives. Usually, the root of the mess is because of the financial problem.
"When the man is poor and there are many wives, that's why the trouble is always there.
"The family quarrels because there is nothing to eat, but it is not a requirement for the man to be rich.
"Whether you are poor or rich, you can still marry many."